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Do you reveal your sex life as openly as you do with your naked life? If not, why not?
I get this question all the time from my good friend / property manager. The other day he came over to do a repair on the bathroom sink at a time I was not entirely prepared for company. I hurriedly rushed to the bathroom to conceal an intimate object I had left out in the open. He became aware of what I was doing and questioned my motives as to why I would be open and unashamed about letting others see me naked; however, I was shy about revealing my sex life. So, I am opening this question up to all other nudists…Are you just as open about your sex life as you are being naked in front of others?
Well I don’t really share either one with the family as they have different beliefs than me, but I think if I did share one first, it would be my naked life. There’s just some sexual things that need to be kept between sex partners. I’m crazy enough to publish both online, but yet pray the family never finds out about either one because of the shame they would try to push upon to me. Although I still hold my values as my own no matter what they would think, I’d rather not shock them in person.
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LikeDislikeI reveal all cause I personally don’t give a f*** what people including family, friends, strangers think. Either accept me or leave, cause either way I still rock “peace “
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LikeDislikeAs long as you define your ‘sex life’ personal, it is better keep it private. Nude and sex does not share equality.
One have to overcome the shame of being nude to others, which takes more or less the same amount of stress as public sex.
But it is just because the society believes they are the same, and obviously we are now trying to differentiate them.
There is nothing wrong of your shame.
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LikeDislikeNudity does not equal sex. My outward body is just skin. What’s between my ears, is private. My sex life is maintained between my ears, not my legs.
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LikeDislikeI think you have summed it up very succinctly; well done.
I am pretty open about my nude life, with the exception of at work. I do not want any labels at my place of employment. That being said, I am not public with my sex life, no more than I am with my bank statement, or my income. My nudity and my sex life are unrelated. This is a major misconception of textiles (there I go with the labels again…sorry), nudism and sexuality are NOT the same! I do have a textile life, but I prefer the nude one. We all shower nude…I hope, nusism has no more to do with sex, than it does with bathing. I am not public with my bathing either…other than to say that I do bathe.
I hope this clarifies things.
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LikeDislikeI’ve published an autobiography about my sexc life. People read, ask me questions, they don’t understand.
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LikeDislikeNO .. not everyone needs to know everything. just know what cards are shown and you can guess the rest of the deck.
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LikeDislikeWhat is this “sex life” you speak of?
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LikeDislikeWho are you asking, Gary?
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LikeDislikethe person asking me about whether I’d tell people about this thing I don’t have at the moment. Sigh.
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LikeDislikeI’m quite open about my nude life. Even though I’m of a size that is, shall I say, large, I’m not ashamed of what I do. I’m a nudist because I like the feeling of the wind on my body. It’s quite enjoyable.
However, I do not share about my sex life. I’m not ashamed of it, but it is no one’s business except for my wife and I. That’s the beauty of the intimacy of having been married for 26 years. We enjoy ourselves and that’s all people need to know.
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LikeDislikeI find it hard enough to get over the fear of someone coming in my home to see me nude much less be worried if they happen to see a dvd case that is of an adult movie, or playboy’s on the bookshelf. Even if I know the nudity is accepted it is still nervous for me at times, I had put out an ad for a photographer or someone to just photograph me nude I got a response from a woman so that was of more comfort to me in general but even then I was a tiny bit nervous as she and I doing photos and I was nude. So for me I care less if people see what toys my wife and I use..
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LikeDislikeI feel no need to share either with others to whom it’s not important. Since I’m a social nudist and not a swinger, many more know about my life as a naturist than know any details of my sex life.
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LikeDislikeI don’t make it a secret. My friends know I prefer that they call before dropping in. That gives me a chance to hide away anything that may be in plain view. Those who have shown up unannounced have at various times seen my butt plugs and dildos in the bathroom.
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LikeDislikeI’m just starting to explore and be comfortable with my nudism. My wife accepts it but isn’t keen on it. I believe that what we do sexually is really no one else’s business and as a naturist we don’t promote sex. It has taken me quite sometime to realize that being a nudist/naturist has nothing to so with sexual activity, but to be free and unencumbered with clothing and being comfortable with one’s own body and accept others as they are.
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