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How can I convince my wife to try nudism?
I have been wanting to practice nudism for years, but I haven’t been able to convince my wife to try it. She is aware of my interest, however when I showed her pictures from some of the websites, she was convinced that it was only appealing to men since the pictures only showed young and attractive women. How can I show her what it really means to live free of body image issues and enjoy nudism? Any tips or experiences that might help me?
Unfortunately, one of the resorts I belong to fills their ads with a disproportionate number of young, model-type women, and then they discriminate against the excessive number of single men who show up! Normal women who look at the ads think “I don’t measure up” and unfortunately the ads also attract men with different goals than those of sincere nudists.
Ummm… show pictures of old and ugly men?? lol unfortunately most “nudist” websites only do show young and attractive women but you and I know that nudism is more diverse than that. I see more young and attractive women driving thru my college town than visiting the nudist resort.
You can lead a horse to water, but… I took my wife to a nude beach where I knew a crowd of nice, decent, welcoming people, some with spouses that came along but didn’t undress completely. She was welcomed by all, including other women, but didn’t like it and didn’t want to go back. That said, I’ve had the most luck by focusing on making the experience safe for the female first-timer. The most powerful safety measure is the presence of confident naturist women. I also try to be sure that any men present are vouched for – explicitly or implicitly – by other women. Self-consciousness is an obstacle, but I think the prospect of creepy, aggressive men is one of the biggest obstacles to women trying nudism.