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How to invite someone to go with me to a nudist resort?
I’ve never been to a nudist resort or location, but am very interested to. I’m not in a relationship right now, so I don’t have a trusted “significant other” to ask to go to a nudist resort with me. Most of what I read seems to discourage single males going alone. Any advice?
I’ve only asked two people to go to a clothing optional beach with me.
1) A significant other. Once we were comfortably naked around each other and all over the house it eventually came up. Though apprehensive she agreed to go (We never did find the time though).
2) My adult sister. As part of a small group. She considered it and gave a vague “I don’t think so but I’ll try anything once” kind if answer. We never did go either.
Don’t ask someone who you will make you embarassed if they decline.
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LikeDislikeThanks, deesbees.
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LikeDislikeI was single for a long time before I married, and learned long ago to not let not having someone to go along stop me from going anywhere. Yes, a few resorts discouraged me. Some where downright hostile. But a few accepted me and I enjoyed it just fine.
Funny that deesbees mentioned inviting his older sister. In my early 30’s I mentioned to my older sister whom I’m very close to that I’m a social nudist. She found that interesting and asked if I’d take her to a club someday. A few months later, I did. She enjoyed it, but it was more of a bucket list thing for her than a change in her lifestyle (which already was a lot more adventurous than mine was).
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LikeDislikeI’ve tried and tried to get folks to go with me and my boys. Nobody brave enough yet. But we are going again this year in spite of not finding a travel companion.
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LikeDislikeThanks, Mitch. Since “Mitch” could be either gender, are you a guy or a gal? I ask only because–and unfortunately–people react differently to a man’s invitation versus a woman’s. Do you agree?