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My friend wants me to go to a nude beach or nudist resort with him
I agreed I will go, however I would like to start at a clothing-optional nude beach or nudist resort. Will someone provide me with some suggestions I can offer him? Thanks in advance!
Resorts, beaches
may be tell him you’d like to go to a c/o resort or beach just to get use to the nudity my firt time at a c/o resort they let me pay for 1 night of camping and I didnt go nude til my camp was set up and I felt ok but 10/20 min in it was grate no nervus feeling I whent back the next morn and payed for another night. so just sit down and talk to him
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LikeDislikeIf you’re in the US, ALL nude beaches are actually clothing optional. Thinking about going nude is far worse than actually going nude. Your first time publicly nude is like getting into a swimming pool. You can do it slowly and painfully, or just jump in and get it over with. After about 10-20 minutes, you’ll realize you’re NOT the center of attention, and nobody else really cares. Then you go through the giddy stage of how great it feels, and why didn’t you try it sooner.
I would suggest a couple of vids to watch. “Educating Julie” an older 80’s flick, but still relevant today, and a funny flick that came out just a couple years ago called “Act Naturally.” Both are available online.
Don’t sell yourself short, you can do it, it’s really quite easy.
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LikeDislikeI agree that it, at first, seems easier to go to a clothing optional beach where you have the “out” of not having to undress if you don’t want to. People there are fine with others who choose to remain clothed. But you’ll quickly find that it isn’t a spectator activity, but rather a participatory social activity, and you’ll be a lot more comfortable and feel more accepted once you go nude like the rest. You won’t really “get it” until you do. But once you do, you’ll very quickly understand what all the big deal was.
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LikeDislikeThanks you two for the suggestions! I really appreciate it.
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