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Is it okay to show affection while naked?
I am not an exhibitionist and don’t want to get mistaken as one either. If my girlfriend and I show affection to one another (i.e. kiss, hold hands, give back rubs) will we get into trouble at a resort? I heard from a friend that he got scolded for giving this other friend of ours a foot massage at Glen Eden Sun Club. I don’t want the same to happen to my new girl and I since we can hardly keep our hands off each other.
no problem in Europe
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LikeDislikeIn the early days, any touching was often verboten at nudist resorts. Today that is seldom the case, although standards will vary at different resorts. (EG: A particular resort may or may not accept nude dancing.) As a general rule, shows of affection (a brief kiss, holding hands) are okay. But “necking” that might be okay elsewhere is best avoided at a nudist resort, and the standards of behavior you see around you at a particular resort are your best guide. (It is hard to judge an anecdote like the foot massage incident from the hearsay evidence of the concerned party.)
There’s a time, “and a place” for everything a wise man once said.
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LikeDislikeDepends on the location, but yes. I have danced at nudist resorts, hugged both males and females. Kissed, held hands, I have not seen many “inappropriate” displays of affection. This one time I was at a resort, and a be landed on my bare butt. Without even thinking about it, a lady friend of ours, just kind of “shooed” it away, in the process her hand kind wiped the bee away. After she did this she began to appologize to me for touching my butt. I laughed, stopped her appology, and thanked her for shooing the bee away. The whole incident was quite funny, and a butt would have been a bad place to get stung!
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LikeDislikeWhen you show up why not ask the owners/people that run the place? Each club or resort will have rules usually posted for you. They are usually very helpful to new people and answer any questions you may have. Point being, each place may have slightly different rules and being embarrassed isn’t fun and could scare you away from a lifestyle you may hopefully come to enjoy and want to have.
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LikeDislikeOne shouldn’t engage in PDAs (Public Displays of Affection) that one wouldn’t do around the same people as one would elsewhere with the same people. That said, some places and people are more conservative than others (just as true with clothed places). One should respect the comfort level of others around them in such matters.
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