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How does nudism affect one’s libido in the bedroom?
I’ve wanted to try the nudist lifestyle for a while, and am “getting up the nerve” to plan my first experience. One thing I’m concerned about is how becoming so comfortable to be naked with the opposite sex (I’m a male) in a non-sexual way will affect my libido in the bedroom. In other words, can nudism desensitize someone from becoming sexually aroused (in the bedroom)? I know the naked body isn’t the only way to become sexually aroused, but it IS a significant part of a couple’s intimacy. For you married and committed couples out there, how has being nudists affected your sex life?
Intimacy and sex are not the same. Nudity does increase intimacy since barriers are removed. As a nudist of 10 years, my wife and I have found that sexuality improved! You still use sexy clothing or lingirie get things going in the bedroom, but we have a deeper relationship due to our life as nudists.
It’s just one of those things you have to experience to understand.
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LikeDislikeI think the easy answer is that there was a time when humans didn’t really wear much clothing and we still managed to reproduce. Associating nudity with sex or libido is a trained behaviour.
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A lot of people are artificially conditioned to associate nudity with sexuality. But to be fair, people dress differently to accentuate gender differences no less starkly than just being naked would. Arousal is more about the person you’re with and all their subtleties, than just what their body, or their clothes, simply looks like by itself.
Even so, nudity promotes honesty, acceptance, and intimacy, which are all good things to have in a relationship. It desensitizes nothing.
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LikeDislikethank you rick407 and C-OHome
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