I’m a new nudist looking for some advice
Namaste :)
I’m 18 and I’m not new to the idea of nudism/naturism. In fact I once tried to talk my mom in to it when I was 14 but she made a joke about it and told me it would never happen. Now that I’m a legal adult I really want to go to a nude beach but I live in Illinois so there are no nude beaches here. I’m thinking about going to Mazo beach this summer in Wisconsin, but one of my biggest concerns is getting an erection. This is going to be my first time nude outdoors and around others so I’ve already accepted the fact that I will get one or more erections just from the excitement of being nude outdoors, is this beach generally okay with that as long as I’m not flaunting it around or would I be expected to wrap a towel around me or go for swim until it passes? I’m also thinking about inviting 2 very close family friends (a brother and sister) I’ve known them both since I was 6. A little info on them, the guy might as well be my brother, I love him (no homo) and we’ve had normal conversations nude in the showers after hockey practice but I know he gets kinda shy when there are other people besides just me and him in the shower. The girl is sort of like a Tom-boy, she also plays hockey and she’s played on boys teams too. I had a crush on her a long time ago but now we’re just really close friends, she’s very very attractive and even though I think of her as a sister seeing her naked is bound to give an erection. Sorry for the long question but I really want to live the nudist lifestyle and I want to know how I should bring up the idea of a trip to a nude beach to my friends
First off congratulations on taking the first step towards trying out nudism. For me I wanted to do it for ten years and for one reason or another I never tried it until this past summer when my wife encouraged me to try it. She is not into it herself but having her encouraging me to drive to my local resort and try it out helped me immensely. I recommend leveraging the two people in your life that you mentioned to encourage you to get over the pre-nudist jitters. Don’t be surprised if it is not their thing and don’t let it discourage you from trying it out yourself. Get in your car, put on your favorite tunes, and don’t think about it until you have your car parked at the front gate. I recommend going to an AANR approved club http://www.aanr.com/aanr-clubs/?state=IL which looking at this list there is actually a landed club called Blue Lake Inc. in Illinois.
It sounds like nudism is in your DNA like it is for me. Don’t worry about the erection. The initial jitters take care of keeping him at bay those first few minutes and then after that the natural social interaction of people just like you keeps your mind off of it being sexual in any way. You will be surprised how much better he behaves in the nude environment vs. textile environment.
Your next step if you choose to go to a resort would be to call the resort and make sure they accept singles males (if you are going by yourself). Explain to them this is your first time. Have them answer any questions no matter how silly they may seam such as when I get there were do I park and can I wear clothes into the office etc. Blue Lakes Resort looks like they require nudism all the time (weather permitting of course). Just keep in mind not all clubs are like that. Some allow clothing but encourage nudism and others require nudism as much as possible. Don’t let it discourage you either. The vibe I am picking up from your message sounds like you will love it.
Try out nude yoga. Hopefully the place you go to offers it. It is like clothed yoga only better. Also check out the YNA of Wisconsin http://www.meetup.com/YNA-WI/events/past/ to find others around your age. Get in with a group like this around your same age and you will definitely have a blast. Let us know how it turns out or if you need extra encouragement.
~Namaste
people understand that sometimes things happen, and it’s out of your control, at the same time, you don’t want to be wandering around with an erection, talking to people, and what not, pretending it’s not there, cuz it is. but, as a general rule, you keep a towel with you, or if your laying around or something, roll onto your stomach. get in the water if there is some near by, most realize it’s just not that big of a deal, and it’s greatly appreciated that you are trying to cover till it goes away. and you know what? after your naked several times in a social situation, and don’t think about it, it’ll give up and stop trying to embarrass you. but still keep that towel. the second you leave it behind, it’ll pop back up again. trust me, i know.
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